As a young girl, I always found myself playing with the boys in the neighborhood. I preferred playing sports and games that were typically associated with boys. I enjoyed the rough and tumble play and didn't mind getting dirty. However, I always noticed that some parents didn't want their sons to play with me because I was a girl.
It was a confusing time for me because I didn't understand why I couldn't play with the boys just because I was a girl. I didn't see the big deal in it. I just wanted to have fun and play games like any other kid.
The Impact of Gender Stereotypes
Gender stereotypes are deeply ingrained in our society, and they start at a young age. Boys are supposed to like sports and be tough, while girls are supposed to be nurturing and like dolls. These stereotypes can have a significant impact on children and limit their choices and opportunities.
When I was younger, I didn't realize the impact that gender stereotypes were having on me. I just knew that I liked playing with the boys and didn't understand why I couldn't. But as I got older, I started to see how these stereotypes were affecting me and those around me.
The Importance of Inclusivity
It's important to create a society that is inclusive of all genders and doesn't limit anyone's choices or opportunities. Children should be able to play with whomever they want, regardless of gender. By limiting children's choices based on gender, we are perpetuating harmful stereotypes and limiting their potential.
As I grew older, I started to see the importance of inclusivity and how it can benefit everyone. When we include everyone, we create a society that is diverse and accepting. We open up doors for new ideas and perspectives and create a more well-rounded world.
The Acceptance of Self-Identity
As I hit puberty, I started to realize that I was attracted to both boys and girls. This was a confusing time for me because I didn't understand what it meant. I grew up in a society that told me that I could only like one gender.
It took me a long time to accept my self-identity and to come out to my family and friends. But when I did, I was met with love and acceptance. I realized that it was okay to like both boys and girls and that my self-identity didn't define me as a person.
The Importance of Acceptance
Acceptance is crucial in creating a society that is inclusive and accepting of all genders and sexual orientations. When we accept others for who they are, we create a world that is more loving and tolerant.
Unfortunately, there are still many people out there who don't accept those who are different from them. They perpetuate harmful stereotypes and make it difficult for people to be themselves. But it's important to stand up for what we believe in and to fight for a more accepting society.
Conclusion
Even though I like boys, I still want to be able to hit and play with them. Gender stereotypes and harmful attitudes towards those who are different can limit our potential and create a society that is not inclusive. It's important to accept everyone for who they are and to create a world that is more loving and tolerant. We all have the right to be ourselves, and it's up to us to fight for a world that accepts us for who we are.